When you are rebuilding it’s easy to cruise through life mindlessly thinking that now you will automatically make right choices or good relationships will just come to you. But it takes effort and awareness to make right choices and actually renewing your mind as well, reminding yourself to ask God to help you to see clearly to make wise choices when it comes to relationships. Don’t choose people with the same abusive patterns or the patterns that have kept you bound for years. Be alert, know that loving people can also mean praying for them without being in close relationships with them.
Psalm 27:13-14
13 I would have lost heart, unless I had believed That I would see the goodness of the Lord In the land of the living.